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I hope so! I worry about him, even though I know he can take care of himself.
I think I understand what you mean, though. It's one thing for me to pester Seto, but it's another thing entirely for me to go around him and do things without his knowledge.
Your voice is important, Anya. If your friends really value you, they'll respect what you say.
Am I right to think you've mentioned this to them before?
sometimes but i do not always know how to say since i know that they are doing it to be nice so i do not want to sound like i am unhappy that they care because i am very happy !
You don't have to apologize. Something like this is a tough situation! It would be nice if there was an easy solution, but the world doesn't work that way.
I think if you tell them that you know they mean well and you value them, that's a good place to start. Sometimes a bit of sweet can temper the bitterness of a hard conversation. Tell them exactly what you're telling me here: that you're very happy that they care about you so much, but it feels as though they sometimes do things regardless of what you want or without even asking you first.
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I think I understand what you mean, though. It's one thing for me to pester Seto, but it's another thing entirely for me to go around him and do things without his knowledge.
Your voice is important, Anya. If your friends really value you, they'll respect what you say.
Am I right to think you've mentioned this to them before?
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but i do not always know how to say
since i know that they are doing it to be nice
so i do not want to sound like i am unhappy that they care
because i am very happy !
it is a little hard to explain
sorry
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I think if you tell them that you know they mean well and you value them, that's a good place to start. Sometimes a bit of sweet can temper the bitterness of a hard conversation. Tell them exactly what you're telling me here: that you're very happy that they care about you so much, but it feels as though they sometimes do things regardless of what you want or without even asking you first.
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that is very good advice
okay !
anya will try to do that next time
thank you very much
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